Ok, so here goes blog number one.... first i would just like to go ahead and point out that my blogs will not contain correct grammar, spelling or punctuation. i hate waisting my time with capitalizing letters, etc... this is no english paper...just my thoughts...
so anyways...recently I've become very, i guess, troubled by peoples sincerity of questions. meaning, i think a lot of times people ask certain questions as, "how are you?", "how's school?"...or even "how's life." but i don't think people really want the honest answers to these questions. the typical answer or response to someone in passing or what not is "fine", "good", or "okay"....however you answer. recently when i went home one weekend i was asked these questions by people from church, etc. and when to their dismay, my answer was not "fine", "good" or "okay"... they immediately became dumbfounded...as does anyone.
i do this too. and it bugs the crap out of me now that i realize it. i mean, its like you're asking the question so that you can halfway appear to care about how the other person is honestly doing. if you don't care...don't ask. or if you do ask, and in the event someone answers honestly, be prepared...
just something on my mind lately that i felt the need to vent on. hopefully the future "blogs" will be more interesting...(side note: can i just say that using the term "blog/blogging" makes me feel like a complete and total nerd, lol...so i will refer to these "blogs" from here on out as "notes")...
temporarily frustrated.
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